Kai is now 10 and still has meltdowns, mostly when we go out he says he wants to go somewhere. When we get there he wants to go home or decides he does not want to be there for some reason and screams and shouts. People always look at you funny when this happens or talk to themselves, I know they are thinking bad parent or so on. I don’t really care what they say about me I always think say it to my face would be better though. Well so what have I found in these 10 years of meltdowns. I found over this summer holiday the meltdowns are less, This is because I have chosen to introduce a reward style system, this goes for his xbox and iPad too. Kai is not allowed to play during the week now. He can use the PC if he is doing something educational or programming or what he enjoys but is leaing. Rewards come in the shape of stickers or sweets, ice-cream, healthy snacks like carrot sticks, tomatoes, fruit, depending on the reward and how many bad snacks his had.